One of the most stressful aspects to the holiday season is ensuring that everyone on your long gift list ends up happy. It’s polite for people to at least pretend that they like what they’re unwrapping, so how can you tell whether you might be a bad gifter?

You Probably Bought Something Last Minute

There are only 28 days until Christmas, and the end of the year tends to sneak up on us. What are you doing now to tackle that gift list? Planning ahead and taking consideration will help you snag a thoughtful gift they’ll love, instead of a gift card or socks at the last minute.

People Won’t Make Eye Contact

It’s easy for people to smile and sound enthusiastic as they open a bad gift—but it’s more difficult to look you in the eye as they do so. If people tend to look away as they unwrap your gift and say thank you, it’s a sign that they may be unhappy or uncomfortable.

You Haven’t Paid Attention to What They Truly Want

Did you know that most people prefer to spend time with family, help others, and maintain traditions, rather than get gifts? Sometimes, people are frustrated because they didn’t ask for a physical object, but you gave them one anyway. Respecting their wishes can help you become a better gifter.